The first story entitled, “The Carpenter” goes:
An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife and to enjoy his extended family. He would miss the paycheque, but he needed to retire. “They could get by”, he said.
The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favour. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.
When the carpenter finished his work, the employer came to inspect the house. He handed the front-door key to the carpenter. “This is your house”, he said, “my gift to you.” The carpenter was shocked!! What a shame!! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently.
The second one is entitled, “Long Handle Spoons”
A man spoke with the Lord about heaven and hell. The Lord said to the man, “Come, I will show you hell.”
They entered a room where a group of people sat around a huge pot of stew. Everyone was famished, desperate and starving. Each held a spoon that reached the pot, but each spoon had a handle so much longer than any of the arms that could not be used to get the stew into any of their own mouths. The suffering was terrible.
“Come, now I will show you heaven,” the Lord said after a while. They entered another room, identical to the first; the pot of stew, the group of people, and the same long-handled spoons. But there everyone was happy and well-nourished. “I don't understand,” said the man. “Why are they happy here when they were miserable in the other room and everything was the same?” The Lord smiled, “Ah, it is simple,” he said. “Here they have learnt to feed each other.”
I hope my message is simple and clear to my readers. Exclusiveness, selfish, pride and dishonesty never helped any society, and would never. We build our lives, a day at a time often putting less than our best into the building. Then with a shock, we realize we have to live in the house we have built. If we could do it over, we would do it much differently but we cannot go back.
So it is with us. We are the carpenters and also members of the “Long Handle Spoons”. Each day we hammer a nail, place a board or erect a wall. “Life and happiness is a do-it-yourself project” as someone had said.
Your attitudes and the choices you make today, build the “house” you live in tomorrow. Please, build it wisely!!!